Hi guys,
We never end up doing, what we had intended, because we never wanted to do it in the first place. We blame the circumstances, peers, friends and even god! It is easier that way. Putting the blame on something/someone gives us the feel good factor that it wasn't entirely our fault.
There are several catalytic factors to get you where you are. One of which is cynical comments of other people. Anything you do/want will be immediately shut down by someone. It could be some one we know or even a complete stranger.
It is easier to believe the wrong than right. For instance, if you happen to see a boy and girl standing and the girl is crying. It would me much easier to believe if someone said that the girl is crying because of the boy's actions, rather than the actual fact, which might be that the boy is consoling that girl.
We use this cynicism to build a wall around us, and we keep adding the bricks until the day we die. This wall suffocates us to a slow and painful death long before we actually die, because we loose faith and the hope for a better tomorrow. We begin setting our limits by what others say to us.
Our fears overpower us and take charge.
Don't beat yourself yet, because even when you've hit rock bottom, there is still hope. Start breaking the wall, make effort to look on the other side. It is a world full of possibilities out there. Go out and make your mark.
Wake up to the fact that you have the right to how your life turns out to be. Take control of your life's steering wheel, and learn to have fun!
Till next time..
